I need to get a new computer and have been going through the nightmare of trying to select from the ridiculous number of options, combinations and permutations available. I’m a fairly hardcore maximiser which means that, if it wasn’t for my overwhelming need for gratification, I’d probably never be able to make a purchase. The perfect computer system (well as perfect as I can afford), by its very nature, is only perfect up to the moment that I make a commitment to it. At that same moment something more perfect will inevitably come along.
So, it was serendipitous that I came across an article today which suggested seven steps that can help the maximiser break out of his perfectionist loop and spend some money. I’ve adapted them to suit my own particular traits.
1. Be clear about priorities, so high standards can be reserved for crucial choices – in other words: don’t sweat the small stuff. Self made rules can simplify some other matters, for example: ‘I will look for one hour only’.
2. Once the costs in time, money and anguish of becoming well informed about the various options have been weighed up, the clever strategy is clearly to accept the first one that meets the minimum requirements.
3. Keep expectations modest don’t dream about fantasy scenarios.
4. The general state of happiness will quickly adapt to almost any choice.
5. Don’t back away from non-reversible decisions; not having that option will increase the likelihood of finding lasting satisfaction. Be mentally removed from the market place once a choice has been made and pay no attention to ‘new improved’ models – so much easier said than done.
6. Resist comparisons with other people, their goals and values are their own so comparisons are meaningless.
7. Frequently and actively savour the choice made or route taken; avoid ruminating regretfully upon roads not taken.
Good – now where is my credit card?
